The setting sun and the solitary wild goose fly together, the autumn waters share the same color as the vast sky.
Posting a picture to prevent depression.
Yesterday, I was deeply touched by a post. It's hard for locals in their hometown to understand the discomfort of having to rebuild social relationships every so often. From childhood to adulthood, every time I moved to a new place for school, there was always a difficult period of transition from unfamiliarity to familiarity. Many children who move around with their parents for work can particularly relate to this, which is why many people dislike school. They don't understand why they always have to be on the go, and parents also don't understand why their children dislike studying, leading to misunderstandings and family conflicts. Of course, this is a one-sided view; it's just one of the reasons.
I just want to remind myself that a hard life not only makes one physically and mentally exhausted but can also lead to spiritual poverty, helping me realize that only those who are constantly on the move can truly understand this. To share my experience, I studied in my hometown until the second grade, then moved to Xiamen for elementary school, returned to the county for middle and high school, went to university in Zhengzhou, and then moved to Hangzhou for work. Looking back at this timeline, it's hard to have a friend who has been with you from childhood to adulthood; most people experience this, which is both sad and realistic.
Once entering the workforce, one can better appreciate the situation. In a strange city, aside from work, it seems there is nothing else to do, which can be a severe environment for someone with social anxiety. I consider myself relatively lucky, as I have family and a partner in a strange city, which alleviates some of that anxiety. However, some people I know are greatly affected emotionally, including those who have left the city due to overwhelming pressure.
Writing a blog is not about selling anxiety; rather, I feel the need to express certain thoughts. Venting emotions through words is also a good method, slowly fueling the journey for tomorrow's life.